Rebecca Schonebaum

Welcome to the deep side


January 1, 2015 It’s a good day to reflect. While the last 10 years of my life I would probably be nursing a pretty bad hangover on this day…… This year I am not.  I haven’t been just reflecting on 2014, but on the last 31.5 years of my life.  Since the day of my birth.  What have I done so far in my life?  What have I accomplished?  And did those accomplishments.. Read More

The Good Old Adult Meltdown


Today was one of those mornings that my alarm went off and I was in shock that it was already 6am.  Despite going to bed early I had a lot on my mind and I didn’t feel like I got any sleep.  I dreaded getting up to start the day… My mind turned on turbo mode and I could only think of the things that I was annoyed with at work, or pissed.. Read More


Expectations are kind of a weird thing. In the context of a relationship, they seem to be contradictory. For example, in order to be in a healthy, happy and lasting romantic relationship, a person must be on the path to self-love and be able to let the other person be themselves 100% of the time letting go of any expectations of how they should act, what they should do, and who they should.. Read More